Marriage Monday: Last week we looked at the extrovert and the introvert - how did you get on? Any surprises?
This week, we'll briefly look at another type of difference: the intuitive and the logical. I tend to be very much a logical person, always looking just at the facts, drawing conclusions on what I see without considering what people might be feeling or thinking that caused them to act that way. When my wife shares information with me, I try to fix the problem she's telling about. The intuitive person on the other is more intuitive, considering the feelings of others, speculates on the future, act on "hunches" and can come across as flighty. Imagine if a husband is one and the wife is the other character! Sit down together and discuss what you think each other is out of these two styles, and then imagine ways in which appreciating the different character of your spouse can help you understand their actions and responses. Maybe even try to put yourself in their shoes a bit so that you can better understand why that last argument (if you can remember back that far :-)) happened? ... See MoreSee Less